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For every man seeking dating or romance on Tinder, there are probably 10 others seeking to hook-up, or to become friends with benefits.While none of these options interest me, I certainly receive many offers.He had a wonderful combination of piercing and wide-ranging intelligence, a sense of humor, and a good job –he played guitar in a metal band.Unfortunately, as two people with impossibly tight and busy schedules, we weren't able to (or perhaps were unwilling or frightened) to carve out enough time in our schedules to really give the relationship a chance.When he told me that he read women writers because he couldn't relate to them, I should have fled then and there.I didn't and we dated for a few more months but parted ways once we determined we wanted different things from a relationship. We matched on Tinder and he immediately asked me to dinner.After a day of dry lectures and an evening of happy hours and conference socializing, we were tired, a bit tipsy, and slightly giddy.As we sipped wine and gazed out at the hotel's infinity pool and the lights of the city, we talked about how nice it would be have to have a date with us.
My friend and I were sharing a hotel room at a weeklong business conference.Many of these offers come from much younger men (I mean, 15, 20, or 25 years younger).I'm not sure if it's because older women are seen as more interesting or self-assured, or (as I suspect) because men watch too many X-rated films centered on the younger man/older woman trope. Another downside is that when I match with someone, we are freed from face-to-face communication, which isn't always good.The schedule makes intimacy difficult and the dating (and mating) dance tends to be, well, not very easy.On the one hand, my schedule automatically winnows the dating field – someone must I've met men on Tinder interested in both serious and casual relationships.