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Bottom line message here is that dating really sucks. Not everyone plays these stupid “reindeer games” as one of my cousins calls it, and you’re lucky if you find someone who doesn’t.
Same goes for dating, so if a girl seems uninterested or unavailable, the guy becomes intrigued, seeing her as a prize, and he has to have her.You wouldn't value money if it was just handed to you every day, but since you have to work for it, it has more of a value to you. You don’t know if they’re interested or not, and you have to work toward the goal of getting them where you want them, wherever that might be, and hopefully it’s not just your bedroom!For women, we want to be the safe haven for this “player.” We want him to be good for only us.But, I do know how it works; I just like to play by my own rules. Nine times out of 10, when I reach out and put myself on the chopping block, I always get rejected or the other person loses interest.If there's someone I find myself interested in, I’ll usually start off by playing along to the rules of the game: taking a long time to answer texts, making myself seem busy or ignoring them at parties or at the bar, acting like I don’t care. I’m going to tell this person how I feel, and I’m going to double text, even though I know I shouldn’t.”Well, let me tell you, it never works out in my favor. And the reason people tend to lose interest when you start showing more of it is because the “chase” is gone, the game of who can act like they don’t care the most has ended and the “talk” you’ve been avoiding now has to be done. Think about that gorgeous stranger you saw last week at the bar.