Dating games men play
It was nothing but a means to an inevitably disastrous end. I'd spent 22 years living in a fantasy world where I was always in total control of the role a man was playing in my life, and I liked it that way.
It wasn't until I moved to a new city after graduating college that I got my first taste of how sad our dating culture is. Little did I know, I was about to drown in a pool of men who not only lived to play this "dating game," but also played to win.
Therefore, you truly believe that the only way for you to win him over is by playing him back.He once told me it was only OK for us to kiss in public if he was the one to initiate it. Apparently, their love for each other was simply uncontrollable, and he couldn't bear spending another day without her.This was the man who was very talented at juggling two to three women per week.They left me standing helpless, heartbroken and desperately seeking answers about everything that had gone wrong.According to these men, however, the answer was quite simple: We were never that serious.