Chat rooms about taboo sexual subjects
And yes, I may even choose to explore it with another consenting partner.
However, transparency in motive and careful negotiation of how to bring the fantasy to fruition is absolutely necessary.
There were “players,” those who were just horny and despicable, and there were doers, or at least potential doers, the true bad guys.
The goal was to identify the latter, hook them, and then reel them in, turn them into “travelers.” Once a traveler took that all-important step out of fantasy and into the real world, his behavior went from the merely immoral to the overtly criminal.
Both the policewoman and her target give the author their versions of the truth, in a case that challenges the conventional wisdom about online sexual predators, and blurs the lines among crime, “intent,” and enticement.Mollena Williams, an alternative sexuality educator and blogger, is a co-author of “Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities.” March 5, 2013 The power of fantasy lies in the capacity to explore, without restriction, the inner recesses and outer limits of our psyche.For many, it is enough to have the imaginary encounter, and it need never be breathed to another soul.The story reflects what they said about themselves and their actions, and presents two very different points of view.Shortly before six o’clock on the evening of Monday, September 19, 2005, Deery went to work in her cave, logging on to Yahoo and expertly navigating its public chat rooms.