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You will learn to keep the focus on yourself in the here and now. This is a spiritual program based on action coming from love.
You will take responsibility for your own life and supply your own parenting. Look around you and you will see others who know how you feel. We are sure that as the love grows inside you, you will see beautiful changes in all your relationships, especially with God, yourself and your parents.
Failing that, we found another compulsive personality, such as a workaholic, to fulfill our sick need for abandonment. Having an over-developed sense of responsibility, we preferred to be concerned with others rather than ourselves.
We somehow got guilt feelings when we stood up for ourselves rather than giving in to others.
The alcoholic family is one of chaos, inconsistency, unclear roles, and illogical thinking.
Arguments are pervasive, and violence or even incest may play a role.
As a result of this conditioning, we confused love with pity, tending to love those we could rescue. As ACA becomes a safe place for you, you will find the freedom to express all the hurts and fears you have kept inside and to free yourself from the shame and blame that are carryovers from the past.The healing begins when we risk moving out of isolation. By gradually releasing the burden of unexpressed grief, we slowly move out of the past.We learn to reparent ourselves with gentleness, humor, love and respect.Children in alcoholic families suffer trauma as acute as soldiers in combat; they also carry the trauma like an albatross throughout their lives.Not only is the experience devastating, it's common, says Stephanie Brown, founder of the Alcohol Clinic at Stanford Medical Center, where she formulated the developmental model of alcohol recovery.